So it’s Friday night and I am so excited for my sister, Crystal. We are heading to get her boy-toy at the airport. We stop at Wally World for a few items. She is like glowing with happiness. We get to the airport early and decided to smoke a cigg before heading in. Her phone rings ... "I’m stuck in St. Louis" "What? ...Your joking with me." "No I’m pissed". He won’t know for a while when he will be here. So she is all down in the dumps and we decided to go get something to eat since neither of us ate earlier. She texts him back and forth, finally he finds out he will be in Springfield at 10:00 a.m. Saturday. Cool beans ...right? So we head home. Now to go to Springfield it’s about a 40 to 50 minute drive from Buffalo. "Aasta you are going to take me in the am right?" "Yes Crys I will." I was a little upset for here we wasted a trip to Springfield and I missed a Halloween party that I go to every year. But that’s okay I’m doing something for my best friend, my sister. She surely will appreciate me for it. And it’s not like I won’t die because I missed this party.
Get up early that morning and head over to her place. Head to Springfield and make it in plenty of time. We both are super excited. Watching all the peeps in the airport can be quit fun. There he is ...YAY finally. Well they lose his baggage. (Bastards) "We will deliver it to you." Crystal asks me "Do you like him? Is he cute?" "Yes I do like him, seems like a good guy. Yes he is cute too." We decided to stop and get something to eat. Without him having his baggage we need to take him somewhere to get some extra clothes. So we go to the "mall". Crystal and I were having a ball. He found the things he needed and on we went.
Saturday night I have this party at Donna’s Ice House I must attend. It’s the night the boys are announcing that they choose my song title for their new song. I am so excited. I mean this means a lot to me. But I do have to go to Nikki’s party with Crystal & Bobby for a few minutes. Now all this time I had told her I couldn’t stay but 10 to 20 minutes tops, because the drive to Donna’s is about an hour and ½ if not longer. I thought she understood. The plan was that they were going to take her car and I was going to follow them so I could leave when I needed too. Well that’s not what happen. I’m running late due to the vampire teeth I had wasn’t working. Oh well right. Get to Crystal’s place and what do I get. "We are just going to ride with you so we can leave early too, I’ll tell Nikki we are going with you to Donna’s." "Okay but Crys we have to leave when I say." "Okay Aasta, I love you." (I’m not going to insert other things that were said for her privacy) We stop at my place and grab a cooler, already late, the party started at 7:00 p.m. and it was BYOB. We stop at the local liquor store. Oh no ...it looks like her ex’s truck is there. So Bobby and I head in to get the beer and ice. No biggy. "Crys it wasn’t Curt." "Oh well good." Head to Nikki’s place. Get there and I decided to drink one beer and head out. (Just make an appearance, Nikki understands that I have to go to this other party) "One more beer Aasta." "Okay" ...wait ...wait ...wait. "Crystal we have to go now, I’m already running behind and Aaron is waiting." "Just one more beer." "Okay one more then we have to go." We get in the car and guess what time it is ......8:30 p.m. or so. "Fuck I’m late ...fuck fuck fuck. Oh well ...sighs." Bobby drives my car since I had a few to drink, funny thing is I’m sober as all get out, could be I was so excited about Donna’s. "Don’t worry about it I just won’t go, it’s too late anyway." "Why don’t Aaron and you come over and have a few beers then?" "Okay" ..... a few minutes later. "I want to take him home ...and ...." Yeah if you can guess it then so be it. "Okay well lets go to your place and I’ll head home."
She was so happy. Glowing as I said before. I get home and Aaron looks at me like "weren’t we going to Crystal’s for a little bit". (we had called him on the way from Nikki’s and told him to be ready) "No she had other things she wanted to do, so I just came home." "What about Donna’s?" Instant hurt washes over me. "Don’t worry about it babe." I go to bed around 11:00 p.m. feeling like the whole night was a waste.
Sunday morning I get woke up. I don’t mind because it’s Crystal. She wants to go to breakfast. Aaron says that’s fine. We go and it was nice. Aaron got to meet Bobby. I have a million things to do that day. (Laundry, cleaning, grocery shopping, have to stop by my moms place and grab some plants) So on with the day. I drop off plants to Crystal. I get most of all my laundry done and get the call. "Where were you last night. Black Buffalo called your name on the stage." "Yeah well I didn’t make it." "That’s too bad."
Hurt runs all over me again. Something this important to me and I miss it. So yeah I was pretty upset. Halloween is my holiday and well fuck it all. Crystal calls me a million times that day. I wasn’t all "happy go lucky" with her but I was pleasant. Monday gets here and I am just pissed now. She calls "What’s wrong ...why are you acting like this?" She calls again right after I left for court and proceeds to ask my co-worker/friend Cindy, "What’s wrong with her." Cindy also stated to me when I got back that she also, which Crystal is now denying, "Why is she being "snotty" to me?" Cindy didn’t know what happen over the weekend so it’s kinda strange she would make something like that up. So I go on with my day, pissed and upset but knowing I’ll get over it. Before I head home I get a call from Crystal, "Why are you acting this way?" So I tell her. *sighs* What do I get, "Well you should have told me you didn’t want to go to Nikki’s." UMMMM HELLLOOOOO ......I did say that numerous times before hand, even the day she said something about it I told her I couldn’t go if it was on the same night as Donna’s party. "But Aasta I want you to go, please go with me, I need you there." So now she is pissed at me for being upset I missed something important to me.
Now I have left out quit a few things in this story due to her privacy. But damn. The things that really started to upset me more after the last call. 1. She gave me no gas money for the two trips to Springfield, granted she bought my lunch on Saturday, I guess that makes that up. 2. All I wanted was to go to Donna’s that night, and she could care less. 3. Now she wants it to be all my fault.
So I send her an email Tuesday afternoon explaining my feelings on the matter, and how I’ll get over it. I just didn’t feel that she understood. I even had Cindy read it over before I sent it to make sure it wasn’t going to upset Crys, and that I wasn’t being "hateful" or "rude". Here let me share it with you all ......
Crys,
Hey, I suppose you are now upset with me about being upset about Saturday night. Let me say this babe, I was upset and I got over it. It was only because that night at Donna’s was special to me. You know that. And then here we were late going and you decided that you just wanted to ride with me so you could leave early too. How fair was that for me? It’s not like I was going to say "no you guys drive". But lets go back a few weeks, how many times did I tell you I wanted to go to Donna’s and could only stay at Nikki’s for about 10 minutes? But nooo you really wanted me to go, and I felt like it didn’t matter to you that I had other things to do. You needed me, or so you appeared to need me. You guys could have went together and left together, but that is not how it worked. So yes I was upset.
Then we were all going to go to your place that night and drink a few beers. Did that happen, well no because you wanted to be alone. I told you I like Bobby, but shit Crys you are going to be with him for 10 days. It’s not like you could have waited till Aaron and I left to fuck the hell out of him. He wasn’t going anywhere. But no for your sake I just went home to Aaron, with this look from him like "weren’t we going over to Crystal’s"? But this is only my opinion. I think another thing that upset me is you never gave me gas money for those trips to Springfield. Remember I was doing this all for you. But I know you forgot or just didn’t think about it that way. Or maybe it was because I didn’t ask a million times. But this doesn’t matter anymore because it’s all done and over with.
I wasn’t being "snotty" to you as you ask Cindy why I was being "snotty" I was just hurt and needed a day or two to let it pass. I felt I had that right. Then to talk to you that afternoon and have you turn it all around like it was my own fault. I was even more hurt. But it will heal.
You are my best friend. And I am so happy you and Bobby are hitting it off so well. I truly am, just think about me sometime in the process. As for your mom being upset, what can I do to help that? She probably is just upset that she hasn’t meet him for herself. I am sure that would help the matter for I do not believe she wouldn’t like him. He’s a great guy, really.
Well I just wanted to get this off to you so you had it. I love you and always will, but I can and will get upset from time to time just as you do the same. We are best friends, soul sisters. It comes with the territory. *smiles* Right? Anyways let me know if you still plan to have supper sometime this week. And yes I’ll still go with you to take him to the airport, that is if you want me too.
Love, Aasta
I get home that night and guess what I have an email from her. Here let me share it with my readers .....
You will have your gas money thursday on my day off I will bring it by your office... as for fucking up all your things I said I was sorry... and as for not asking you I did ask you while we were driving in springfield... and bought you breakfast so your welcome... and I am not mad I am not going to fight with you... I said I was sorry... I FUCKED everything up for you! but don't tell me that I don't care because if you really believe that well I don't know what to tell you Aasta...and as for cindy saying I said you were being snotty to me on the phone fucking bullshit!!!! I said you sounded up set! never said you were snotty to me... so lets get the facts... sandy was standing right there while I was talking to cindy on the phone.... I will drop by your gas money thursday... I can leave it in your car if need be! sorry I fucked so much up for you. If you have anything else to say, please say it to my face and not email.... see you thursday.
So I email her a million times. I am so upset and disgusted. Why has this blown up so fucking big now? Why couldn’t she just get it and move on. I did, by Tuesday I wasn’t so upset. But now I am even more pissed that she would be that way with me. Here I spent the whole weekend doing these things for her. For what to get nothing from her but a cold shoulder. Well you know what I hope she reads this and gets even more pissed off. Friends don’t treat friends this way. At least in my eyes.
I look forward to as many comments on this as I can get. Was I wrong for being upset? Am I in the wrong for having my feelings? I like Bobby and I am glad they are hitting it off so well. I do not want to ruin that, but where did my feelings fit in?
3 comments:
OH YOU TWO! CUT IT OUT!
I can say that Chrys should have been sensitive to what you wanted but then I could also say that you should have put your foot down before it got to that point. However, either way, both of you would have ended up with hurt feelings. I am sorry that you missed your big night and that you didn't get to take the stage with the boys. And i'm sorry that you two are fighting. I hope it gets resolved. ***Warm cuddly HUGS & belated spookey KISSES***
Im sorry that things are going so bad. She shouldnt have kept you from your party and if she didnt want to leave the party she should have found another ride. But you can never trust what others say a person says. the heresay he said she said thing goes way out of prespective. you gals are too good of friends that Im sure you will be able to get threw it. I can see why your feelings were hurt and I hope that the pain goes away soon. I think you should have spoken up sooner but your hurt was normal.
Hugs and kisses
Karn
Ummmmmmm.......
Damn, you sound just like me. That is scary. Let me see if I got it nailed down. You wanted to go to Donna's and things weren't working out as planned because of Chrys and her boy toy, so she suggested something else and then flaked on that due to excessive horniness? No offense intended to any and all with that. So, you being the person you are put what you wanted to do aside to please someone else and when all is said and done.....you start dwelling on it and get more and more irritated to the point that someone asks what's wrong and you reply NOTHING, and damn near rip their head off????? Yup, that's me.
It is not about the money for the gas cause she bought you breakfast. That is small and minor. It is about not getting to do what you wanted to do because Chrys changed plans on you. Did she have a lot to drink? You also have to remember that her new man is in town and she may have just been thinking of herself and what she wants without intending to do so. And when she saw your e-mail complaining about no money for gas she thought that was petty and got pissed off too.
You both need to sit down together when you get a chance and work things out. You sound like too good of friends to toss that aside over a disagreement like this. Both of you have been hurt over what was said and both of you didn't make your plans or feelings clear enough to each other from the start. She should have told you what she wanted to do and stuck with it instead of screwing up your plans. And you should have stuck to your plan of going to Donna's (even if you were late) instead of giving into Chrys' sudden urge.
Now that I have smaked you both with a long........sloppy.........wet.....noodle. Get your minds out of the damned gutter, people. Kiss and make up before I have to smack you both again. : )
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