December 15, 2005

Update on Mother



So an update on my mother....

They have totally taken her medicaid away now and she can not get food stamps either. Because of the house she owns. Now she is wanting to sue the state for "attempted murder". I am about to wash my hands of the whole ordeal. She will not listen to me, she will not listen to my boss. She just won’t listen. I told her years ago to sell the house because it’s going to bite her in her ass. And well now it has. Yet now she wants to sell the house to my brother Dusty for the taxes owed. GRRRRRRRRR! Sell the piece of shit and use that money till it’s gone then fucking reapply for medicaid when the money is all gone. How fucking simple is that? But no she wants to call me uptin million times a day and make my life hell. WTF am I suppose to do mom ...make them pay for you? I just don’t get or understand what she wants. I am so frustrated at the whole mess. Then ...then she calls the 1800# on her social security disability to see where her case is, because me telling her isn’t enough. Talks to some man and tells him her sad story he tells her to have her attorney call the Springfield office to bump her case up to the 1st of the year, otherwise it would be sometime in August 2006 before she gets a hearing date for that. So I tell my boss and he says to go on and call them. So I do and I get the freaking run around (oh how I love to be pass around like a fucking rag doll). They end up telling me that we need to put everything in writing and send it to them. So now I wait to see if Mel wants to do this to help her out ...again. I swear I don’t see how a person can use someone as much as she has used me. Yes I know she is my mother ...I do, but mothers’ don’t do this crap to their daughters ...or at least they shouldn’t. I just want to run away ...far away ...maybe to the evil pixie land where I would fit right in.

I’ll keep you all posted ...................................................

1 comment:

Michelle, the moon rabbit said...

Do you have directions? I'll come with you if you decide to go. LOL!

I know it's rough, hunny. But sometimes, you have to set your foot down and say, "No more. I don't deserve this from you."

Now, I personally don't agree that they should take her medicaid away simply because she owns a home. To me, that's total bullshit. I mean, do they really expect her to be homeless in order to get help? Is that really legal?? Does she have any other options to get medical assistance? There has to be another way around this BS.

But that's just my two cents worth.

We got your card yesterday. Yours should be arriving to you soonly. =) Have a better evening. *tender hugs*

Losted Ones