All Those Things & Morrrrrrrrrrrrrrre

So here I go down this path of "getting married". So many options, so many things to do. I am a little sadden to say that I will not be eloping to Vegas. Aaron’s grandmother was very upset we were going to and with his grandfather passing away I agreed to have the wedding here in good ol’ Buffalo. *pouts a little* I know your suppose to do it the way you want it, well what if it means your going to offend a whole herd of peeps. So me being the "nice/submissive" one, gave in. I can always have my honeymoon there, Aaron wants to do a cruise though... that would be fun too. But then again I rather elope, and well Aaron would to, now that he is seeing what it takes. *LMAO* One way or another ...right?

So the biggest question I get is "when". We have finally set a date, ready for this ...............September 23, 2006, first day of Autumn, but a week later we find out one of our friends are getting married on that day too, now I just want to say screw it. Aaron mentioned June 6, 2006, which is a Tuesday, but that would work. Next biggest question is "where". We have talked this over and Aaron wants it outside. Which I am fine with. We don’t belong to a church so it would be very hard to get into one just for a wedding. Now the reception we can have at the O’Bannon Center, no problem there. But where to have it outside has been tough because if we were to have it at his grandmother’s there might not be enough room for guests, then again if we have it outside we will have the Missouri weather to deal with. So I’m stuck on it for now. Aaron was leaning last night to have it at the old park here, it has a gazebo and lots of room for guests and parking, and it’s like 2 minutes away from the O’Bannon Center. Still have decided yet.... grrrrrr! But if we do elope then all would be better for me, less stress!!!!!

Next thing is the "dress". *LMAO* You will never believe what Aaron said to me ....we were discussing "dresses", he informed me ...yes informed me that I can’t wear white coz I’m not a virgin! WTF????? I found it so hilarious and told him I was wearing white and if he had a problem with it I’d show him how good of a virgin I could be. I think that changed his mind!!!!! I really don’t know what style I want. I did have a dress picked out many of years ago but can’t find the picture among my mess of "pack rat" shit. I did find this beautiful "gypsy" wedding dress, but the price was over $1,000, I’ll be damned if I spend that much! It’s a stupid dress that I will wear for one day. It’s not about the dress ...or is it? I also have a problem, what to do about my tattoos on my arms. I love my tats, don’t get me wrong, but I am assuming it isn’t very lady like to display them at a wedding. There is of course makeup to cover them up, either way I’ll use makeup or get a dress that covers them.

My mother now wants to sit down with his mom and discuss their roles. OMG I will have to have a camera for that. I love my mother to death and I know she only means good, but it will be something to see the both of them discuss things. My mother has so many ideas, could be that I am her only girl and well yeah I’m getting married! *lol*

So here I am thinking to myself, all I wanted was a quiet wedding far away. And here I am getting a big wedding here in Buffalo. I don’t know whether to be happy or sad. I thought this was about Aaron and myself, but I am learning that is far from the case.

Mystic asked me one of the funniest things I have heard, what’s your colors? WTF? Now I have to pick colors! *LMAO* How about the colors of the rainbow? That would be pretty! *grins* She and I will have to get together and start this process. She will be my Maid of Honor, I really don’t know how many bridesmaids to have. I really really would LOVE if Michelle was one. We will see what happens still so many months away.

As I keep rambling on I’ll end this post here. Pictures to come ASAP, I swear!

~autumn moon kisses~

Oh yeah & Happy Late Valentines Day!